Your Hidden Bouquet book project

“A man who sends you a bouquet of flowers before finding out what kind of flowers you like is a clod” - Anonymous

Similarly, a man who talks about sex fantasies with you without getting to know your particular tastes first, is also a clod.

Are you an avid crotch watcher? Do you often wonder what a man has underneath that bulge in his pants? Do you find yourself thinking about pulling down a strange man’s pants and examining his tool? Do you think about different scenarios after you see a man’s bulge where he has his way with you? Does it excite you to think about doing it with strange men in an odd place? Then you may already have a rich fantasy life.

It may interest you to know that most other women do the same thing. Whether it’s the UPS man, Pizza guy, or your waiter at a restaurant, all women fantasize about having sex from time to time.

It doesn’t matter whether you are married to a wonderful man, or have a boyfriend who is an athlete in bed…the need to fantasize about sexual variety is an outlet that enriches your life…and, may be just the thing to let off the steam of those wild urges that keeps you from actually acting it out.

Part of the mission of my sex fantasy book is to provide a way for women to explore what interests them in the privacy of their own home, as a method of self exploration to better their understanding of themselves and the possibility that they can find someone who is interested in the same things...

And I would encourage two lovers to share their fantasies with each other to augment their sex lifes, enhancing the excitement of it, and also provide an outlet to dissipate desires that they may not want to act out in real life. I feel that it is a much neglected area of study with lots of misconceptions by both sexes, and I see an opportunity to do some research sociology style...

I have been using women I know as sounding boards...I am switching to more of an email based feedback system now...and have teamed up with two female writers that are following my line of research

Nancy Friday did some pioneering work starting in 1968 using surveys and she is partially responsible for the "Free Love" revolution in the 1970's. However, mostly women have written about the phenomenon of female sex fantasies and popular notion is that a male can't provide any insight.

I believe that a sensitive male can provide great insight after the initial denial phase is broken thru...which is what the female writer's have been doing since 1968...So, now is the time...also, you may not realize that females sex fantasies change as the pressures on a female in society change...so, being a unique time in women's history...this work will be totally unique and completely uncharted territory.

And, if I titillate a few women in the process, then I've provided a valuable service...

Whether you want to admit it or not...all women have fantasies that excite them. It's a matter of discovering for yourself what your hot buttons are. Then, you can use that knowledge to make your life more satisfying and complete.

You can enhance your current relationship by finding out what his hot buttons are. And together you can explore your mutual hot buttons and your sex life will soar to a much higher level

So, to sum it up, I am writing a series of books on female sex fantasies. It is designed to be a self-help book to aide you in exploring your secret inner subconscious world in a conscious way. And, I need your help in putting it together. I am asking for help in writing this book in three different ways:

1. By sending me ideas of what your secret sex fantasies are so that I can write about them specifically. Or,

2. By reading excerpts or stories that will be included in the book, and rating them on a scale of 1 to 10 orgasms. Or,

3. By writing out your secret sex fantasies and sending them for inclusion in my book.

The formats of the fantasy stories that are going to be used as examples are to be written in the first person with you as the person in the action. By systematically compiling examples of every possible type of female sex fantasy, I hope to end up with a book that women can read through as an exploration of what turns them on.

In the back of the book will be a checklist where you can analyze the stories that excited you (and those who don’t). You may be surprised by what you find out about yourself! Also in the back of the book, readers will be directed to a variety of feedback methods so I can continue to get valuable input for my next project. And, either through email, snail mail, or visiting our website, a reader will be able to voice their opinions, ideas, or needs.

It is my hope that this will become the ultimate self help book for women of all ages. Your level of participation is determined by what is comfortable for you. So, in the privacy of your own home, you can explore your secret subconscious sex fantasies, and achieve a greater understanding of who you are sexually, and what exactly it is that turns you on.

Technically, this is a sociological survey and the wider number of respondents I have, the more accurate it will reflect the population at large. Please help me if you are interested. You can contact me to let me know your level of interest at greglyle07@yahoo.com and let me know if you are interested in participating.

Attached you will find three examples of secret sex fantasies having to do with outdoor sex, and the excitement of almost getting caught. One I wrote, and the other two were sent to me by ladies just like you. The stories in my book will be written in the first person format from both the male and female perspectives.

Try reading the story and reflecting on whether it excites you or not, and rate the story on a scale of 1 to 10 orgasms to determine your interest level in the subject. I’m sure you get the idea. I look forward to hearing from you in the near future.