The Journey

This book is meant to be a journey. A quest if you will, to explore your unique sexuality, and to map it out specifically, so that you know your likes, and dislikes, and can share that information with your mate for more satisfying sexual adventures.

The language in the erotic stories was kept graphically realistic on purpose, so as to present a truthful representation of the type of fantasy portrayed in each story. Most of the story ideas were generated from actual clients who shared their favorite fantasies with me.

You will notice that some of the stories have a combination of fantasy elements and may cross over the categories I assigned to them. It’s not an exact science…I tried to take the Sociological approach to the material, and interview literally thousands of women about their likes and dislikes in their sex fantasies.

The divisions and categories I have chosen to group these fantasies in were modeled after Nancy Friday’s first book on female sexual fantasies in the 1960’s. In that book, “My Secret Garden” she outlined about 14 rooms in the “House of Fantasy” (She was working with letters sent to her responding to an advertisement in the paper).

In researching many books on the subject I realized that a woman’s fantasies today, may bore her to tears in a few years, so it’s a bit like taking a snapshot of a gazelle in flight…Women’s sexual fantasies change over time. They ebb and flow with the social forces and personal pressures of daily life for each woman. This is merely one researcher’s snapshot of a particular time in America, given a small sample of women (2,000 to 3,000 women participated in writing the book).

I fully realize that what was really attempted here was to analyze how women think about sexual fantasies. And, that women are purposefully mysterious and don’t want us to know and understand how they are thinking. So it was a bit like jousting with windmills to begin with. I tried to do a good job accurately representing what women told me excited them…but, that’s for you to decide.

As you read through the book, make notes in the back about your likes and dislikes. Grade stories that excite you a little, a lot, or not at all and notate which ones they are. When you finish reading you will have a small map of your current sexual fantasies that you can share with your sexual partners in the future.

Ten years down the road, if you read through this book again, I’ll bet the map has changed. Read, and enjoy!