The Mission

Part of the mission of my sex fantasy book is to provide a way for women to explore what interests them in the privacy of their own home, as a method of self exploration to better their understanding of themselves and the possibility that they can find someone who is interested in the same things...

And I would encourage two lovers to share their fantasies with each other to augment their sex life, enhancing the excitement of it, and also provide an outlet to dissipate desires that they may not want to act out in real life.

I feel that it is a much neglected area of study with lots of misconceptions by both sexes, and I see an opportunity to do some research sociology style...

I have been using women I know as sounding boards...I am switching to more of an email based feedback system now...and have teamed up with two female writers that are following my line of research

Nancy Friday did some pioneering work starting in 1968 using surveys and she is partially responsible for the "Free Love" revolution in the 1970's. However, mostly women have written about the phenomenon of female sex fantasies and popular notion is that a male can't provide any insight.

I believe that a sensitive male can provide great insight after the initial denial phase is broken thru...which is what the female writer's have been doing since 1968...So, now is the time...also, you may not realize that females sex fantasies change as the pressures on a female in society change...so, being a unique time in women's history...this work will be totally unique and completely uncharted territory.

And, if I titillate a few women in the process, then I've provided a valuable service...

Whether you want to admit it or not...all women have fantasies that excite them. It's a matter of discovering for yourself what your hot buttons are. Then, you can use that knowledge to make your life more satisfying and complete.

You can enhance your current relationship by finding out what his hot buttons are. And together you can explore your mutual hot buttons and your sex life will soar to a much higher level

The mystery of womanhood is that each one is totally unique and the same thing will not turn all of them on...what turns you on, may turn the next girl off...but, we need to find out a way to discover what that is for each woman.

My point is, that the sex industry is a multi-billion dollar industry...but, little research has been done into what women desire, and why.

Can you describe the basics of a typical fantasy for you? Does it include being watched, forced, dominated, doing something taboo, or flashing someone?

A lot of the older generation use being coerced or forced as a way of getting rid of guilty feelings...whereas the younger generation has not guilt issues, but are more interested in bi-sexuality and taboo subject.

Do you like fantasies where a man treats you like a lady, but when overcome with passion, throws you down and rips your panties off? When you masturbate, how do you envision the love making? Or does that change with your mood?

I've ordered a book that is out of print…you should read it, Nancy Friday "My Secret Garden" or "Forbidden Flowers" or "Women on Top"....1968, 1973, and 1991. See if you can find yourself in the pages...it will open up a whole new world for you...and help you understand yourself.

I really do appreciate you feeling comfortable enough with me to share your innermost secrets...I respect that. I really am a nice caring guy...and I understand how my research interest can turn women off who get objectified by every Tom, Dick, and Harry.

Would you be willing to read one of the erotic stories and give me feedback on my book idea in general? There's more to it in terms of feedback and interactive website...But, more on that later...I'm anxious for an intelligent female to look at the overview of the materials in this category and tell me that I am going to make a brilliant contribution.